Men who are Ambi in home and Anniyan for outside are the masters of manipulative behaviour… Because most of the men from all the generation believe that manipulation is the key to escape from all the mistakes that they do for their own pleasure (which includes double standard affairs, exploitation of their partners [mentally, physically and financially], dominating their partners by cutting the other off from social connections and independence).
Men who pretend to be transparent and claim that their actions are either unavoidable or for the family’s sake, are often acting purely on their own self-interest. Their behavior often has nothing to do with the women of the family, whose well-being and contributions are ignored. These men need to stop believing that manipulation works so effectively because the truth will eventually come to light. When it does, the women in their lives will suffer emotionally, realizing they never truly knew the person they spent their whole life with.
Women who seek equal partnership, value transparency, and are open to accepting the truth in a relationship will ultimately feel betrayed, spending their lives in disappointment. This will eventually lead to a breakup. At that point, the already hurt woman will struggle to move on, believing she was too stupid to recognize the lies. Even intelligent and intellectual women may start doubting their own judgment. Most women don’t realize they are being manipulated till their death, and that’s the power of these masters of manipulation… There is nothing more horrible than making someone feel stupid about themselves for our sake… it will shatter their very existence
இதற்கு “நான் உன்னை அடிமையாய்த்தான் வைத்துள்ளேன்” என்று வெளிப்படையாகத் தெரியும்படி நடக்கும் ஆண்கள் மேல் என்று தோன்றுகிறது.
இதை முழுதாகத் தமிழில் எழுதும் வல்லமையைப் பெற வேண்டும்…
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